not wanting to date someone because you aren’t physically attracted to them doesn’t make you an asshole
wanting to sit at home watching TV instead of hanging out with people doesn’t make you an asshole
cutting off a friendship that was not satisfying to you doesn’t make you an asshole
Relationships do not make me happy.
Being successful and having a banging body make me happy. Time to get back to making that my priority.
And on some small level, I think you owe me something for deceiving me so exquisitely.
The director of the company came in for my end of year assessment today, based on the revenue I’ve brought in for the company in the last three months, he reckons by this time next year I’ll be taking home at least £5000 a month after tax.
So the sacrafice of sleep, mental health, social life and friends won’t have all been for nothing after all.
i hate that i literally cant tell if im ugly or not and i cant tell if im really fat or just like kinda fat i literally cant tell and sometimes ill be like “im just being dumb im pretty good looking” and then ill be like “wow im being so egotistical i definitely look like shit what am i talking about” like i just…. dont know and it bothers me so much cos it’s something i can’t understand
if you miss someone who does not miss you, or who is no good for you, or is unattainable, take all the love you once felt for them and spread it around other places. put your love in worthwhile people and things, turn the romance in to passions for hobbies or admiration for others- enrich your own life. focus on yourself and those who actively make you happy.